{"id":16696,"date":"2024-04-24T10:53:11","date_gmt":"2024-04-24T08:53:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/?p=16696"},"modified":"2025-10-17T10:15:37","modified_gmt":"2025-10-17T08:15:37","slug":"epris-de-liberte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/beziehungsliebend\/","title":{"rendered":"Aime les relations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Les personnes qui donnent la priorit\u00e9 \u00e0 cette aspiration fondamentale ont un fort d\u00e9sir de proximit\u00e9 et aspirent \u00e0 des contacts de confiance. Elles sont capables de se mettre \u00e0 la place des autres et de percevoir leurs besoins. Elles pensent davantage \u00e0 l'autre qu'\u00e0 elles-m\u00eames et ont le d\u00e9sir de rendre les autres heureux. Ils peuvent \u00eatre d\u00e9vou\u00e9s, modestes, altruistes et pacifiques et n'aiment pas se faire remarquer. Elles sont g\u00e9n\u00e9reuses dans le jugement qu'elles portent sur leur entourage et ont tendance \u00e0 l'id\u00e9aliser.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce faisant, ils peuvent minimiser ou n\u00e9gliger les erreurs et les faiblesses des autres. Ils sont chaleureux, serviables et parfois d\u00e9vou\u00e9s. Ils aspirent \u00e0 l'harmonie et \u00e9vitent les tensions. Ils ont du mal \u00e0 dire non, car ils veulent \u00e0 tout prix \u00e9viter un \u00e9ventuel rejet. Leur adaptation peut aller jusqu'\u00e0 l'abandon de soi, leurs propres besoins sont alors ignor\u00e9s ou ne sont m\u00eame plus per\u00e7us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Comportements favorables dans les relations :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Place l'autre au centre<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Peut parler de ses sentiments et cr\u00e9e un climat harmonieux<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Se retire volontiers pour aller \u00e0 la rencontre des autres<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Implique les autres dans les d\u00e9cisions<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Se soucie beaucoup des personnes proches<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Aime assumer des responsabilit\u00e9s sans d\u00e9cider<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Les comportements qui font obstacle dans les relations :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Se laisse facilement exploiter<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Vouloir tout faire bien pour l'autre<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Peut \u00eatre surprotecteur et enfermer l'autre dans un carcan<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Met l'autre sur un pi\u00e9destal<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A du mal \u00e0 formuler ses propres besoins<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Les tensions et les conflits sont li\u00e9s \u00e0 un stress important<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Convictions fondamentales :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Chaque \u00eatre humain a besoin de beaucoup de proximit\u00e9 et de tendresse<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Les sentiments sont les plus importants<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>La distance et le froid sont responsables du \"mal\" dans le monde<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00catre humain signifie \u00eatre en contact et en relation avec les autres<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dans la gestion des situations de conflit :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Les personnes qui privil\u00e9gient la proximit\u00e9 veulent discuter des conflits et des tensions avec quelqu'un pour pouvoir pleurer, se plaindre, accuser. Ce n'est qu'en discutant qu'elles prennent conscience de ce qui les d\u00e9range, les blesse ou les \u00e9nerve. Souvent, les sentiments n\u00e9gatifs sont raval\u00e9s jusqu'\u00e0 ce que le vase d\u00e9borde. Mais ensuite, le m\u00e9contentement est exprim\u00e9 de mani\u00e8re atypique, \u00e0 voix haute, voire agressive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quel est l'objectif ?<\/strong><br>Proximit\u00e9 famili\u00e8re et popularit\u00e9<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Qu'est-ce qui fait peur et que l'on \u00e9vite ?<\/strong><br>Abandon et isolement<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Apprends \u00e0 conna\u00eetre les trois autres types :<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/epris-de-liberte-4\/\">Amoureux de l'ordre<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/epris-de-liberte-2\/\">Autonome<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/epris-de-liberte-3\/\">Amoureux de la libert\u00e9<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Le test de personnalit\u00e9<\/strong><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.4typen.ch\">www.4typen.ch<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.4typen.ch\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"4tm quadrant\" class=\"wp-image-16646\" style=\"width:493px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1536x1536.png 1536w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-2048x2048.png 2048w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-12x12.png 12w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1320x1320.png 1320w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Le livre sur le mod\u00e8le des 4 types : <\/strong><br>Moi toi et autres complications<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"892\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-892x1024.png\" alt=\"4 types Mod\u00e8le\" class=\"wp-image-16644\" style=\"width:543px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-892x1024.png 892w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-261x300.png 261w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-768x882.png 768w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-1338x1536.png 1338w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-1783x2048.png 1783w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-10x12.png 10w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-1320x1516.png 1320w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 892px) 100vw, 892px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>La formation de coach <\/strong><br><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/formation-de-coaching\/cursus-de-10-jours-de-coaching\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"1108\">avec le mod\u00e8le des 4 types<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/formation-de-coaching\/cursus-de-10-jours-de-coaching\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"439\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1024x439.jpg\" alt=\"banni\u00e8re linkedin 29b\" class=\"wp-image-16387\" style=\"width:1199px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1024x439.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-300x129.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-768x330.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1536x659.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-18x8.jpg 18w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1320x567.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Menschen mit der Priorisierung dieser Grundstrebung haben einen starken Wunsch nach N\u00e4he und sehnen sich nach vertrauensvollen Kontakten. Sie k\u00f6nnen sich gut in andere hineinversetzen und deren Bed\u00fcrfnisse wahrnehmen. Sie denken mehr an das Gegen\u00fcber als an sich selbst und haben das Verlangen, andere gl\u00fccklich zu machen. Sie k\u00f6nnen hingebungsvoll, bescheiden, selbstlos und friedfertig sein [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":16700,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"Freiheitsliebend - Wechsel - 4Typen Modell","_seopress_titles_desc":"Abwechslung, Neues, Abenteuer, Ver\u00e4nderung und Entwicklung. 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