{"id":16689,"date":"2023-04-24T10:35:00","date_gmt":"2023-04-24T08:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/?p=16689"},"modified":"2024-04-24T10:48:37","modified_gmt":"2024-04-24T08:48:37","slug":"epris-de-liberte-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/eigenstaendig\/","title":{"rendered":"Autonome"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>L'aspiration de base Distance s'efforce de vivre de la mani\u00e8re la plus ind\u00e9pendante possible, de ne d\u00e9pendre de personne et de n'\u00eatre redevable \u00e0 personne. Les personnes ayant cette priorit\u00e9 aiment travailler et vivre de mani\u00e8re ind\u00e9pendante, se d\u00e9marquent et savent dire non. Elles sont de bonnes th\u00e9oriciennes et forment leur intellect. Elles ont \u00e9galement un bon sens de l'observation sensible. La plupart du temps, elles pr\u00e9f\u00e8rent une approche objective, adoptent une attitude critique et connaissent leurs souhaits en cas de conflit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ils \u00e9vitent la proximit\u00e9 et le d\u00e9vouement par peur de perdre leur individualit\u00e9 et leur ind\u00e9pendance. Pour \u00e9viter d'en arriver l\u00e0, elles peuvent se montrer froides, r\u00e9ticentes, arrogantes ou inexplicablement agressives. Ils ont un regard aiguis\u00e9 pour les faiblesses des autres et sont peu enclins \u00e0 accepter les contradictions ou \u00e0 faire des compromis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Comportements favorables dans les relations :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A une vision claire de l'essentiel<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tient ses promesses et est fiable<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ne s'impose pas et ne s'accroche pas<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Donne de l'affection en faisant et non en parlant<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Est tol\u00e9rant et laisse de l'espace \u00e0 l'autre<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ne prend pas de d\u00e9cisions \u00e0 la l\u00e9g\u00e8re<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Les comportements qui font obstacle dans les relations :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Est distant, objectif et impersonnel<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Montre peu de sentiments et ne vit pas la proximit\u00e9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A du mal \u00e0 communiquer et \u00e0 s'ouvrir<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Les accords sont per\u00e7us comme une contrainte<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Aime comparer et \u00e9tablir des hi\u00e9rarchies<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Interrompt \u00e0 nouveau les discussions approfondies<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Convictions fondamentales :<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Les gens sont fondamentalement mauvais<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Nous sommes des \u00eatres individuels, livr\u00e9s \u00e0 nous-m\u00eames<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>On ne peut compter que sur soi-m\u00eame, s'aider soi-m\u00eame<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Les relations am\u00e8nent la d\u00e9pendance, l'homme doit \u00eatre libre<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dans la gestion des situations de conflit :<\/strong><br>Les personnes qui donnent la priorit\u00e9 \u00e0 l'aspiration \u00e0 la distance veulent d'abord r\u00e9gler les difficult\u00e9s avec elles-m\u00eames. Ce n'est qu'une fois qu'elles ont trouv\u00e9 la clart\u00e9 qu'elles vont \u00e9ventuellement vers l'autre personne et lui font part de leur solution d\u00e9j\u00e0 \u00e9labor\u00e9e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quel est l'objectif ?<\/strong><br>Autonomie et ind\u00e9pendance<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Qu'est-ce qui fait peur et que l'on \u00e9vite ?<\/strong><br>Restriction et d\u00e9pendance<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Apprends \u00e0 conna\u00eetre les trois autres types :<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/epris-de-liberte-3\/\">Amoureux de l'ordre<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/epris-de-liberte-3\/\"><strong>Amoureux de la libert\u00e9<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/epris-de-liberte\/\">Aime les relations<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Le test de personnalit\u00e9<\/strong><br><a href=\"http:\/\/www.4typen.ch\">www.4typen.ch<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"\/fr\/www-4typen-ch\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"4tm quadrant\" class=\"wp-image-16646\" style=\"width:493px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1536x1536.png 1536w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-2048x2048.png 2048w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-12x12.png 12w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/4tm-quadrant-1320x1320.png 1320w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Le livre sur le mod\u00e8le des 4 types : <\/strong><br>Moi toi et autres complications<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"892\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-892x1024.png\" alt=\"4 types Mod\u00e8le\" class=\"wp-image-16644\" style=\"width:543px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-892x1024.png 892w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-261x300.png 261w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-768x882.png 768w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-1338x1536.png 1338w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-1783x2048.png 1783w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-10x12.png 10w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/buch-cover-1320x1516.png 1320w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 892px) 100vw, 892px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>La formation de coach <\/strong><br><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/formation-de-coaching\/cursus-de-10-jours-de-coaching\/\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"1108\">avec le mod\u00e8le des 4 types<\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/formation-de-coaching\/cursus-de-10-jours-de-coaching\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"439\" src=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1024x439.jpg\" alt=\"banni\u00e8re linkedin 29b\" class=\"wp-image-16387\" style=\"width:1199px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1024x439.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-300x129.jpg 300w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-768x330.jpg 768w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1536x659.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-18x8.jpg 18w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b-1320x567.jpg 1320w, https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/linkedin_banner_29b.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Die Grundstrebung Distanz strebt danach, so unabh\u00e4ngig wie m\u00f6glich zu leben, auf niemanden angewiesen und niemandem verpflichtet zu sein. Menschen mit dieser Priorit\u00e4t arbeiten und leben gerne selbstst\u00e4ndig, grenzen sich ab und k\u00f6nnen gut nein sagen. Sie sind gute Theoretiker und schulen ihren Intellekt. Sie haben auch eine gute, sensible Beobachtungsgabe. Meist bevorzugen sie eine [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":16690,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"Eigenst\u00e4ndig - Distanz - 4Typen Modell","_seopress_titles_desc":"Eigenst\u00e4ndige legen Wert auf Abgrenzung und unverwechselbare Individualit\u00e4t, Einmaligkeit, Selbst\u00e4ndig- und Unabh\u00e4ngigkeit.","_seopress_robots_index":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"iawp_total_views":111,"footnotes":""},"categories":[203],"tags":[205,207,206,204],"class_list":["post-16689","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-4-typen","tag-4-typen","tag-disg","tag-persoenlichkeitstest","tag-riemann-thomann"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16689","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16689"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16689\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16693,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16689\/revisions\/16693"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16690"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16689"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16689"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachingplus.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16689"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}